Monday, June 22, 2009

Kazapalooza 2009

I think I can, I think I can.......get caught up on all my posts. Next in line is Kazapalooza 2009 in Nashville! We had a great time seeing old and new friends.....it always is a bonus to meet your blog friends "in real life (IRL)" We arrived on Friday afternoon and took a stroll around the Opryland hotel premises. Pat and I have been there before but Nick enjoyed all of the water features and paths.......thought it was like Dora the Explorer!





Our first gathering was the meet and greet dinner that night. It is always a bit overwhelming when you get there and see everyone. Nick was afraid to go in the big room and this is where he spent most of the first part of the evening. Funny thing was more and more kids began to join him and before you knew it the party was under our table. Nick is always a trend setter!


There were 60 plus families there and we were the only ones from Zhezkazgan which makes for a slow interaction time (those adopting from same cities tend to congregate) but as the night went on we touched base with our old friends and made some new!


Minni Karen was not able to attend this year but cyber-introduced us to her son Garrett's babyhouse buddy Charlie and mom, Anita. We enjoyed visiting with them so much and Nick and Charlie had a great time under the table and above because Pat was the target of tickle attacks and general mayhem! Pat took Nick swimming when the our boy had enough socialization. Charlie and Anita were also at the pool. I met up with Cincy Karen and we chatted for a few hours with a couple other kaz moms in the meeting room after everyone left. It is always a trip to hear other Kaz stories and be amazed at the miracle of adoption, laugh a bit and cry a tad ....just generally bask in the glow of shared experiences.










Saturday morning after breakfast, we all gathered at the pool and it was quite a site. Kaz babies and kids swimming everywhere! I will venture to say that Kaz kids are the best and most adventurous swimmers that I have ever seen in a pool. They all seem fearless and quite the little water bugs! Nick was not into swimming that day so we stayed an hour or so and then went back to the room for a rest.







After our short rest, we dressed and Nick and Pat went on the Opryland Boat ride and we walked around the hotel. If you have been there, you know this can be considered a hike! We decided to head over to Opry Mills a little early and walk around before meeting up for our big dinner and raffle at Dave and Buster's (also at D&B's). Nick was a little grumpier than usual in the Mall so we sat down on a bench with him just to regroup and apparently exhaustion was the problem! Isn't he the cutest when he is sleeping! Look at those eyelashes!



Saturday night was the Big Dinner and Raffle which raised over 2500.00 for the Kaz orphan organization Two Hearts for Hope . They had lots of kid activities and a special Kid dance/DJ which was amazing. All the kids (and parents) gathered up front dancing with such joy and abandon. I leaned over to Susan (the famous Leeza's mom) and commented on the beauty of the scene and we just sat there a little (or alot) teary. Adoption is just a beautiful thing to behold. The friends we have made along the way are truly the dearest kind. I am so thankful for my Kindred Karens and I finally met sweet Mary from Toronto via Ireland. Her accent took me immediately back to our belated honeymoon in Ireland. I loved those people so much and she is a perfect example why! Such humor and life in she and her family. The "other" Kazmanian Devil, Orin, was as adorable as his pictures and his mom and I do have some seriously similar taste in boys clothing. It tickled us to see how much we dressed them alike! I am not sure how we missed out on Orin being in the pic below but I was thrilled to meet Mary finally in real life and give her hugs for all the support she has given us over the past 2 years.




In our down time, Nick was always making something grand in our room. I believe this was a campsite and he was napping in the "tent". Looks comfy.......probably should have joined him!

I joined Cincy Karen, my trusty sidekick and support giver (it is always so intimidating to meet the kaz blog celebrities IRL) for another late night out. We chatted and laughed for hours. What a blessing all these Kazamommies are to me!



One of the organizers of the event has TWO adorable kids from Kaz. Michelle's son Mateo has always reminded me of Nick. The last day at the goodbye meeting, the boys finally hooked up and started playing and I quick tried to catch a photo. They are two mighty handsome boys and they loved playing batman together. Michelle and her family live near our route to go up north so I foresee a future travel play date with the boys and a rest stop for mom and dad.



My goal is to get a picture every year of Nick in front of the Kazapalooza sign to watch him grow up. I really love this event and we are so appreciative of the 4 girls who plan and facilitate the whole event every year. What an undertaking!......Thanks so much Gretchen, Muriel, Michelle and Kristan.



It was hard to say good-bye so quick. So MANY people, so little time! I am so thankful that my husband is willing to support my blog obsessed habit and attend this every year. He gets an extra reward next year because it is in Milwaukee and he lived there for several year as a child and went to one of his colleges there so he is actually looking forward to the next one. We (the Kazmoms) all chuckle at our hubbies and their general "deer in the headlights" look at the big gatherings. We are just thankful they are there to help with the kids so we can all chat! It may take them all a few years to buddy up but it will happen. Kaz adoption makes you family, it will just take them a little longer to accept the "in-laws"! :) If I had it my way, we would find Kaz families in each state we travel thru on the way to visit our folks. It makes the long drive seem bearable! ;) We will be seeing Minni Karen and family in a few days. Can't wait to get our Krazy Kaz boys together. I am hoping to get the Mexico post done in a few days. I need to figure out how to do those embedded slide shows because we got lots of pictures to share. Our June has just been jam-packed with events. Looking forward to a little slowdown in July and Nick has Spanish camp for 2 weeks.......gee, what will I do with the free time! yippeeeeeee!

Hugs to everyone!

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

A visit and a picnic!

We have been so busy that I am hopelessly behind on the blogworld....reading and posting! We were blessed with a pre-kazapalooza visit from "The" Ruopoli family on their way to Indy for summer vacation. Miles and Nick hit it off immediately by chasing each other in and out of the hotel automatic doors! It was darling! We had a great dinner at Cracker Barrel and then headed to the park to get out some of that all boy energy! The boys had a great time with each other and we enjoyed chatting with Regina and Frank. They were just as sweet and fun in person as they always "appeared" to be online. So glad to know them "IRL" (in real life) now! We visited with them again at Kazapalooza but that is the next post!







I love this sweet pic of the boys.....definitely "cousins" forever! Miles giggles are just as Regina always describes them. IRRESISTIBLE! I loved hearing those precious giggles!



A little blurry but cute still....



We also had our annual picnic given by our homestudy agency. Always fun to see how many kids have found forever homes just in our state!

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Thought I would post our first picnic pony ride picture in 2007


and then, the pony ride pictures, 2009! I am thinking that the pony rides may be a thing of the past.....his legs are getting so long that we may have to move up to horses next.





The ancient Tower slide that scares me every year.....it is so unsafe but the kids love it! It is soooo high off the ground!
We finished off May with this picnic and then the busiest June of all began......details to follow!

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Emptying out the old camera....

We received a great new camera for our birthdays and so it is time to get all the pictures off of the old camera and start fresh with the new one at Kazapalooza! It is the downloading part of the camera that is broken so it requires Pat to take the camera to work and download off of the SD chip to a disc and then bring home to me to download into our My Pictures files....major pain! Very thankful for the new camera! So here goes with some random picture time!

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I've had this picture below for awhile but don't think that I downloaded it....Nick is all about his daddy these days and wants to do everything like Pat. This picture was taken after dinner. Pat had put his feet up to relax and next thing you know Nick pulled up a chair to relax also! Cute!



Nic has not been all that into puzzles. Pat and I love them. We did several in Kazakhstan on our long winter days. He received a pirate one for his birthday and he finally stopped long enough to work the whole thing with me one evening.....I was so proud and he was too!





Nick loves the How I became a Pirate books and we found out that the children's theatre here was doing a musical rendition of the book! It was fabulous and Nick never moved once.....he was mesmerized! So cool! We could not take pictures during the play but I got one before with his ticket!


As much as I hate to have my picture taken along with the fact that I am usually the photographer, I realized during our last post adoption report that it will take great effort to get pics of me with Nick vs. Dad with Nick so I am trying to make an effort albeit torture!





Anyone who knows me well knows that I am a picky cake eater. I am not big on sweets but I am very particular. I am mostly picky about icing. I hate the new fondant or whipped cream stuff...I am old school.....crisco and powdered sugar or butter cream types are my favorites. My friend Amy's mom made me my cake this year and it was FABULOUS. Thanks so much Mrs. S!
She had all these extra touches that made it so pretty and one of a kind. I think she might regret doing it this time.....she might be booked for years to come!








Nick continues to be my little creative genius. Last week, he decided that all his animals were going on a plane ride. He directed them all to their seats.........I love the little penguin sitting behind Mr. Moose....there are 5-6 moose riding the plane also. Can you tell it was a theme in the early days!? :)


And, then, pilot Nick gave the speech and proceeded to take off......to Mars! :)


Nick graduated from Preschool and we went for his little performance and reception last Friday. He was not all that thrilled to be in the performance this year but he made it thru without too much drama and we took pictures of his "diploma"! :)
More Creativity.....Nick and his friend Logan were Chefs and they wanted chef's hats which we did not have so they improvised.....hilarious. I love the look on Nick's face. Pure Kid joy!

We finished out the year at speech with our neighborhood elementary school. We love the office ladies and Nick has developed quite a friendship with Ms. Marie.....she lets him into her stamp drawer! Since we will be going to the Spanish Immersion school next year, we will not see them for Kindergarten. They were all sad and so were we.......

We were even more sad to say goodbye to Mrs. Hellard, our very special speech teacher. Luckily, she has a little boy just a year older than Nick and we are planning a playdate soon!

So many final visits this month. I have been quite emotional about his last Bible Study Fellowship class until first grade, his last preschool class, his last preschool sunday school class, and his last speech class at James Lane Allen. He has been very blessed to have the many of the same teachers for both of his first two years as our son. God was good to us. He had structure, consistency, and lots of grace and love from these folks. They helped us introduce many things to our son like God, family, love, friendship, school, fun, crafts, etc. Many days, I would drop off Nick at BSF or preschool exhausted from conflict and they would accept him with open arms and for that 2 or 3 hours, we both rested from the "changes" of new family life. I tried to make sure all of his teachers knew how much they meant to us in this first two years and they will forever have a place in our heart as our team Kitzman Most valuable Players!! I know he will most likely have many more special leaders and teachers but this group will always be special.....
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Kazapalooza is here.......see you all in a few days!
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(I have one more post from the old camera but waiting on permission to post pictures of the sweetest little boy and his family who we were honored to have dinner and park play extraordinaire with last Saturday night!) :)

Sunday, May 17, 2009

What's been going on?

So I know many of you have been wondering (or not) what the "boys" did while we were on the Kcubed weekend adventure....well, they....


CAMPED IN THE BACK YARD.....





WENT ON THEIR FIRST FATHER/SON HIKE


AND ATTENDED THE UK BALLOON FESTIVAL! I think they had a great time while mommy was away!
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Nick loves to read with us. I have trouble keeping our book budget in check because I always think that he needs to hear that story, or he would crack up at that, or he would love to talk about that character, etc....so he has LOTS of books....he actually calls his area to put his books "the library" and yes, there is THAT many! He rarely stops for long but for a book he will sit for very extended periods of time. One afternoon, Pat had offered to sit and read to Nick and told him to go pick some books.....Below, is what he came back with and proceeded to stack on the table!! ;)

Yes, those are all bibles in their various "kid" forms.....and he does want you to read them page by page..."all of the stories!" Do I see Seminary in his future, professor in higher education, a librarian perhaps!?! (by the way, if you have never seen the series called The Librarian with Carter from ER, you have missed a great show!) Carter's Librarian is actually how I see Nick!
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Nick's preschool had their end of the year performance. He was a silly clown.....how true, how true. He did a great job!



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You know how I love to look at how much our boy has grown and changed. Lately, he has just seemed so more grown up. The baby is all gone. We didn't get much baby at all but there was so much vulnerability and innocence in that first year....much like a new born. All those cries and screams you don't know what to do with but then you slowly learn what this cry means and what that action represents. I miss his sweet babyish face but I love my big boy too. Most days, we can communicate on a big boy level.....even above that at times. Yes, he regresses and it is painful but even the regressions are less baby, kind of more teenager (ha!). We came home a few Sundays ago from church and several people had commented on how old he was looking and I have to concur..... I will let you compare. There are 2 pics taken on May 5th, 2007 and the other two almost exactly 2 years later to the date....on May 6th 2009! Amazing and so handsome!


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Pat and I are celebrating our birthdays this week by going to dinner and Star Trek tonight. We may do a Brat-fest(the big greasy sausage not the gathering of children) on his actual birthday and a new recipe on mine. I am going to veer away from my usual Magee's obsession for my birthday cake and have the privilege of my good friend Amy's mom do the honors this year. She makes the best cakes and has spoiled me this year with little treats that she has made once she knew that I loved her ICING! She rocks and I am so excited. Only 3 week left til Kazakh adoptive families converge onto the poor unsuspecting Opryland hotel. I cannot wait! I feel like I know so many more families this year and we are praying that Nick will be just one more year down the road of tolerance of over stimulation....prayers appreciated! ;) Cincy Karen and fam will be there (Minnie, we will miss you so much!) and I am finally going to meet my Canadian (via Ireland) favorite cheerleader, Mary and family! She has followed us almost from Day one in Kaz. She sent us lots of humor and encouragement thru our 10 week stay in Kaz and has the one and only 2nd Kazmanian Devil, Orin. It really will be scary when all of the Kazakh energy collides on the 5th...If in Nashville on that weekend and the lights dim, Kazapalooza has begun! ;) As Nick has been saying lately, Let's get Rollin'!

Monday, May 4, 2009

THE KAREN KAZAMOMMY WEEKEND 2009

In this part of the post, please start humming the B.rady Bun.ch The.me song..........

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Here's the story of three lovely ladies......


Lexi/Karen


Minni/Karen



Cinci/Karen

who found each other in a very special way
All of them had been named Karen
By their parents
The chance of that is rare

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Here’s the story of a site named bl0g.ger
which brings together those with stories of their own
Their sons were born and living in Kazakhstan
And they were all alone….



Lexi/Nick



Minni/Garrett



Cinci/Max

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Til the one day as we learn from their true stories
The courts declared them a forever family
Thus these K’s were all connected by adoption
And that’s the way we all became like family


The kcubed bunch, the kcubed bunch, that’s the way we became the kcubed bunch

Da,da,da,da,da,da,da,da,da!
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In honor of Mother's Day, I thought I better get this post finished before people forgot all about the big hype of the Karen Weekend.....Needless to say, It was FABULOUS. It is always a bit nerve wracking to plan a get-a-way for friends especially ones that you have not travelled with before and one you had never even met "in person". I must say they are the best travel buddies ever. We talked and talked and talked and talked. Even though we all walked different Kaz journeys, we are somehow bonded by that so intensely that it was like we had been friends for years. Minni and I both adopted "older" boys....Nick at 3 and Garrett at 5 so we share some very similar post-homecoming stories. We cannot wait to get them together although it will probably need to be a very wide open space with earplugs available! :)

I spotted this Inn online several years ago while searching for Pat and I but we chose another instead. So, I decided it would be a great place for a girls weekend. I am always very nervous to go somewhere I have not been with friends who may have high expectations. Thankfully, It turned out to be a great place even without TV! We had good weather for some of the time and had the luxury of just sitting on the porch and talking along with an afternoon hike to the nearby Hocking Hills State Park where we saw a cave and a beautiful falls area. The Karens were VERY easy going so I had no worries about anything. Before we left Cincinnati, we ate lunch at this great outdoor patio and had Thai food. It was the best start to our great weekend. We have great hopes of doing another weekend again and maybe invite some more Kazamommies along. I am so thankful for these girsl. What an awesome gift to get in addition to your very special gift of a child thru adoption. You cannot believe the ways God will bless you when you take the journey to adopt. I highly recommend it!
Happy Mother's Day to our moms and all my friends especially those celebrating their first Mother's Day this year!